Checklist on values in dating

Don’t let the fear of possibly being single prevent you from hashing these matters out early on.

It’s a proven fact that relationships have higher success rate with couples who share similar values and goals. :: When you find yourselves arguing over the same heated topics. Is it really an overreaction or are you afraid of what may be on the other side of the suspicion?

UPDATE: I’ve adjusted the scoring and categories a bit because the test was skewed somewhat toward lower scores.The lower the number, the more likely you will find yourself surrounded by cats. My morning face looks the same as my evening face: 1 point 3. (This relates tangentially to your ability to connect emotionally with a man.) Under 85: -1 point 85 to 100: 0 points 101 to 120: 1 point 121 to 145: 0 points Over 145: -1 point ***** The following ten questions deal with the physical attractiveness of your body. Your breast size is: Bee stings up to A cup: -1 point B cup: 0 points C cup: 1 point D cup, naturally firm: 2 points DD cup, firm: 1 point E cup and up: 0 points 5. Get a tape ruler and measure around your waist and your hips. This ratio is: 0.65 to 0.75: 1 point 0.55 to 0.64: 0 points under 0.55: -1 point 0.76 to 0.85: 0 points 0.85 to 0.95: -1 point over 0.95: -2 points 13. Remember this the next time someone tells you beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Lesbians will also give you an accurate appraisal as long as it is through a third party and not directly to your face. Adjust your rating based on how close your facial morphology matches one or the other. 1 to 2: -10 points 3 to 4: -5 points 5: -1 point 6: 2 points 7: 5 points 8 to 9: 8 points 10: 12 points 15. No acne, blemishes, or poorly located moles: 0 points Some combination of the above: -1 point People are always telling you how silky smooth your skin looks: 1 point 16. Yes, minor: -1 point Yes, major: -10 points No: 0 points 17. Pencil thin: -1 point Average: 0 points Juicily plump: 1 point Weirdly oversized: 0 points 18. Is the distance between your eyes: Wide: 1 point Average: 0 points Narrow: -1 point The bottom line on female facial beauty is that as the lower half of her face becomes smaller and more delicate, making her eyes and cheekbones appear more prominent, the better looking she will be.Unlike the male version of this test, here I have added a sliding scale to some of the questions because this better reflects the outsized importance that certain factors have on a woman’s total sexual value. 15 to 16 years old: 5 points 17 to 20 years old: 10 points 21 to 25 years old: 8 points 26 to 29 years old: 3 point 30 to 33 years old: 0 points 33 to 36 years old: -1 point 37 to 40 years old: -5 points 41 to 45 years old: -8 points 46 to 49 years old: -10 points over 49: you’ve hit the wall. Your breasts look firm and pert when you wear: A bra: 0 points An underwire push-up bra: -1 point Nothing: 1 point 6. ***** The final eleven questions measure your femininity, sexiness, and pleasing personality traits.How can you tell when your relationship has gone on too long? Many say relationships are all about work compromise. But it’s a whole different ball game when it comes to more significant matters such as: a home in the suburbs or condo in the city, children or no children, the “when” of marriage and children or how money should be spent or saved.I’ve outlined four sure-fire ways to knowing when it’s time to hit the road. If you and your man are on opposite sides of the spectrum on these topics or the timing of these issues – you will probably be unhappy if you stay together.