Christian rules on sex and dating

As I stumble through the awkward limbo of single, yet soon-to-be-married, I’ve tried to read every resource tagged within the “marriage,” “love,” and “relationships” genre.

This, and the fact that I was desperate to escape the Grey from every possible angle (though I’m grateful for their messages), prompted me to download a copy of Pastor Andy Stanley’s new book on romantic relationships to my Kindle. Geared towards the young, unwed, and culturally savvy, Stanley explains in the introduction that his purpose for writing mean? Still I pressed onward with hopes of encountering helpful gems of wisdom and Christian counsel over the next 200 pages.

Yes, I am Prophetess Juanita Bynum, but I am not dead.

I know you think that you cannot be anointed and still have a desire to sleep with someone. Always keep your first seven dates filled with educational and cultural things.

Some think that because I am anointed I never get frustrated. They think I don't ever want to do something wrong, but let me tell you that the devil is a liar. Before you make the decision to begin embracing your new life style, I'm going to list a few do's and don'ts--for your dating pleasure. If someone you have a strong attraction for, or vice versa, invites you to an evening event, make it a group thing.2. It helps to stimulate the intellect and not the sex drive.4.

Every single day I struggle to crucify my flesh, and if you tell the truth, you would say the same thing. Allow the man to be the man in every sense of the word.

Also, Christians have a hard time determining what is allowed and what is not.

While at breakfast, lunch, or dinner table, you tell him what you want on the menu and allow him to order for both of you. When you dress naked, you leave nothing to the imagination and you cause him never to tap into the real person that you are! Always insist on him meeting your family and friends....8.

And finally, we’ll share some advice given by people who have committed their lives to godly dating.

God said, “It is not good that man should be alone” (Genesis for us!

Juanita Bynum first preached the "No More Sheets" message at a T. This excerpt from "No More Sheets" is reprinted with permission of Pneuma Life Publishing.

A video recorded there has "spawned a revolution among black women," according to Essence magazine.