When I was a sophomore in high school, my best friend started dating my ex behind m back (while I was on vacation! The situation was a total mess – we got into a huge fight, I lost my best friend forever and it set the stage for a ton of fun insecurities and trust issues.If it’s never happened to you, let me first say you’re lucky and then let me say that it absolutely sucks.And yes, i would feel very vulnerable if we come back together. Like, she is still into me even when she dumped me, and she is expecting the new guy to be like me (im almost sure is a rebound). By entering this site you declare you are 18 or older, you read and agreed to its Terms, Rules & Privacy and you understand that your use of the site's content is made at your own risk and responsibility.My question is, what you guys think is gonna happen with her? She is complicated in some aspects, but i could handle her. There were dozens of these little life secrets that he felt he had to keep. Perhaps you think you’ve been subtle in your jealous tendencies. If you seem threatened by the people your girlfriend/boyfriend interacts with, it will become apparent. Unfortunately, it can be one of those issues where earnest discussion and compromise won't make a difference.You’ve heard the old adage, “You don’t just marry the person. When we’re doing the calculus of who would be a good long-term partner, inevitably the person’s family plays some part in the equation.It’s not a fun experience to go through and if it’s happening to you, here’s a cyber hug.Also, here’s an explanation of what it REALLY feels like when your best friend dates your ex, in GIFs.
He may love you, but your goals are different and you NEVER want to rope a man into marriage. It’s time to go and find a man who appreciates you and is ready for marriage. This has got to be one of the most painful ways to part ways.
The bottom line -- it wasn’t real love in the first place. Otherwise, check your paranoia, and put a little trust in your partner. This may not happen until they begin to think of having children.
Chalk it up to a learning experience; you learn what you like and don’t like. For example, his parents didn’t know he drank alcohol, and so when they came for a visit he and his girlfriend had to stash their wine collection in the basement. If you’ve built a web of lies for your family, your co-workers, and various groups of friends, don’t be surprised if a new romantic partner balks at wanting to join the charade. ” Have you ever told your partner that you didn’t want them hanging around certain opposite-sex friends? You may find that the religious differences that didn’t matter for years are, all of a sudden, a significant deal-breaker.
Now you’re sad and lonely and totally not over him at all. You finally come to the conclusion that you’ll never move on or trust anyone again.
You talk to your best friend about it all the time. You’re so upset you don’t even want to leave your bedroom. (But don’t worry, you will.) Has one of your friends ever dated your ex?