From my personal experiences, and my years spent writing about relationships, I’ve learned that poor self-esteem is the number one cause of unhealthy relationships, as well as the top relationship killer.
Self-esteem isn’t an essential need like food or water, but it’s a supplement that can either dramatically improve your life, or keep you stunted and unfulfilled.
You stop enjoying the relationship for what it is and start craving validation and confirmation that it’s “the real deal.” And there’s only one thing that manifests from that place… QUIZ: Are You Accidentally Destroying Your Love Life?Once we meet a man we really like, we women tend to dive right in.We want to give our hearts, mind and very soul to a man, and meld together into a perfect relationship.“I'm emotionally damaged.” Oh, good - tell me more. When you are in that stage of talking to a guy where you can seriously see yourself being with him, it is easy to get wrapped up in his cute quirks and the things he likes.That is definitely not starting things out on the right foot. But don't let your crush become the focus of your every thought.